Virtual Funeral & Shiva House

Community support is one of the most important tools for healing and moving through grief. As many gatherings are scaled back or cancelled, and travel restrictions force people to stay close to home due to Coronavirus, communities need alternative ways to gather.

GatheringUs enables the same feel of an in-person experience with livestreaming and recording of the events, and real-time participant interaction between all attendees – those in-person and at home.


Two types of customizable, interactive, online gatherings

1) Funeral/Memorial Service:  Our facilitators help plan the program (including speakers/performers, photo slideshow and music) and send invitations with login instructions. Before the event, we coordinate A/V setup and prepare presenters with a practice walk-through. During the event, we initiate the service, direct the order of presenters, and provide tech support for all attendees

Sample Order of Events

  • Pre-event Waiting Room: Video or slideshow with music (photos of person, loved ones, hobbies, causes, values, accomplishments, favorite places)
  • Ceremony: celebrant, clergy, poems, readings, musical performers (multiple presenters). Attendees can read the prayers, transliteration, and translation on the screen while simultaneously watching and hearing the Rabbi
  • Open Floor: Sharing and/or Toasts (open to public)
  • Livestream of Burial


2) Shiva House / Reception: Family and friends can say kaddish as a group and also move into private “rooms” for more intimate conversations. Up to 50 customizable room categories can include groups for family branches (mother/father/close relatives), school, work, hobbies, etc.


Additional Services: GatheringUs can also provide a celebrant, master of ceremonies, and musical performers.

Learn more about our services and schedule a virtual event here or call 609-832-3155 for information.

"Wow, this is amazing. What a great idea. As I'm sure you can imagine, we are trying to figure out what's what in this uncertain environment, with a focus on how we can best be there for our families." - Rabbi Michael S.

"I am forever grateful to you for having made possible such a deep experience, one that has helped me achieve greater harmony with the past. Please know how deeply I appreciate all that you have done with your extraordinary work."  - Lydia S.

"Just a quick thank you for creating and maintaining this important site for families who want to remember their loved ones. Keep up the great work!"- Marlene H.

"Our team is busy imagining all of the amazing virtual services we could offer." - Rabbi Rachel T.